How To Stop Overthinking
Research shows that 52 percent of women mull things over and over before making a move. But thinking too much can trap the brain in a worry cycle, explains psychologist Susan Nolen-Hoeksema, PhD. When you find yourself going round-and-round over an issue, try using some of these tips:
Get a second opinion. Youre used to going it alone, but the old adage Two heads are better than one is a good mantra for you.
Look for distractions. When you begin over thinking, get up and change places. Studies show that a new vantage point can be enough to shake you out of a fruitless thought process.
Keep a handwritten stop sign on your desk or bathroom mirror. Visual clues can cut-down on excessive thinking.
Envision a happy ending. Praying or meditating on a positive outcome will block confusing or negative thoughts.
Steer clear of worry buddies, friends who tend to overthink things just as you do. Reaching out to a positive thinker will help you thinking positively, too.
Robin Westen writes about health for national magazines.
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