Lois Wyse: Finding Caregivers

DEAR LOIS: I have an elderly relative who could probably use a companion to come in daily, prepare lunch, do some shopping and cleaning. I was wondering what to expect cost-wise and what kind of agency to approach. My relative has recently had a hip replacement, is very frail and is a practicing alcoholic who is not about to, in her words, "give up one of my few pleasures at my advanced age." JL

DEAR JL: The best place to begin a search is among friends who may have needed similar services and can provide names of trustworthy people. Next I would recommend calling her doctor (doctors frequently have lists of people available for part-time help). Third, call the local Visiting Nurse office and ask for recommendations. You might also contact any church or club group where she is a member and see if they know a qualified person. If all that fails, consult the Yellow Pages under household help. I do not recommend that you advertise for someone because interviewing and checking references takes a great deal of time. Costs for part-time caregiving are usually based on an hourly fee, will vary in different cities and will also change depending on the qualifications of the caregiver.

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