30 years happily married to a "Preacher????" I got "THE PHONE CALL" from this 61 yr. old Midlife Corrosion man informing me that he "fasted and prayed" and GOD TOLD HIM TO ASK ME FOR A DIVORCE...SO HE COULD PREACH THE GOSOEL TO ALL NATIONS! He kinda forgot to mention "SALLY" who is 21 years younger than he is. My whole world crumbled...EXCEPT FOR MY FAITH IN OUR FAITHFUL GOD! Naturally feeling Cast Aside and needing some MAJOR rejuvenation to my mature 3 C-Sectioned body...I sought what I call a "GUT CUT" from Dr. THOMAS in Hattiesburg. Consultation went well, he thoroughly explained EVERYTHING to me. He dug deep to make certain I didn't have UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS, NOR WAS I DOING THIS FOR ANYONE ELSE BUT MYSELF. We set up date for surgery; arrived for pre-op the day before, given meds, instruction packet....AND I WAS THRILLED!!!! THEN HE ASKED ME WHO WAS DRIVING ME HOME AND WHO WOULD BE MY CAREGIVER after the surgery. I told him, I honestly had no one nearby, except for a new friend who may be a possible mafia hitman and a far away new friend who is bi-polar. I wasn't very familiar with that condition at the time. I was working and living 6 hrs from home and all family was scattered throughout the states. DR. THOMAS PUT THE CLIPBOARD DOWN AND INFORMED ME THERE WOULD BE NO SURGERY THE NEXT DAY, NR FOR A VERY LONG TIME! I WAS SHOCKED AND TOLD HIM I HAD THE CASH, I WOULD PAY DOUBLE, GET A CAB AND I HAD TO HAVE THAT SURGERY! I REALLY DID EMOTIONALLY NEED THAT SURGERY. HIS RESPONSE WAS THIS...