10 Dating Turnoffs for Women

Some men – not all – have been known to be clueless when it comes to dating a good woman and staying in a relationship with her. No matter how sincere you are, women will walk if a man is guilty of any of the following faults. Check them out.

Don’t Be a Showboat Maybe you own a yacht anchored off the coast of Italy, or have a timeshare in Aruba or just got a huge annual bonus. While that does sound great, it’s not going to be enough if money is all you’ve got going for you. Also, it’s not good to advertise your material wealth on a first date. In order to guarantee that second date, it’s best to let her get to know YOU and not what you own.

Don’t be a Slob Just because Ashton Kutcher and Charlie Sheen can get away with looking like hoboes doesn’t mean you can. Look presentable and have good hygiene. In other words, don’t go into this with bad breath and last week’s laundry. If your date sees that you’re not putting in the effort to make a good first impression, why should she bother with you?

Don’t be Rude Be respectful not only to her, but to everyone you encounter along the way. If you’re treating the restaurant staff like trash, your date will assume that you’re going to treat her the same way. The last thing any woman wants is to be disrespected or talked down to. Don’t fake it either. If you are, it may work out for the first few times until she gets to know the real you. So, if you act like this in general, work on changing yourself first instead of looking for someone else.

Don’t be Married One of the worst things to do - EVER- is to lie about being married or separated. Typically, women don’t like being a home wrecker, or discovering that they are one. If are currently separated, be up front about it. If you’re married, don’t even think about dating – online or any other kind.

Don’t be Aggressive Guys can be pushy at times if they’re looking for sex. Especially if they inept at reading the signals women send their way. If you think the two of you are in agreement on this, then go for it. But trying to get naked too fast is off-putting to many women. So, keep calm and carry on. The rewards will be all the sweeter at the right time.

Don’t Stereotype If you’re on a first date and you say “Oh, so you’re that type of woman”, it’s pretty easy to assume she won’t be back for a second date. Jumping to conclusions about your date from the way she answers a couple of your questions is a 100% full fledged mistake. You have to let her answer the question in her own way before you arrive at any conclusions about her.

Don’t be Distracted Put your cell phone on silent or better yet, turn it off. Checking your cell phone every 15 minutes sends the wrong message to your date. It says that you are not engaged in the conversation, which means you’re not interested in her.

Don’t Be All Business Some guys are fantastic salesman or great negotiators, which means they can make talking business seem very easy to do. But, it’s not good to turn your dates into business transactions. There is a time and place to do business, and a time and place for leisure. If things work out with your date, it’s going to better if she knows she can relax with you instead of being consistently uptight and focusing on the next big transaction.

Don’t be Nervous Sometimes this is considered the hardest thing for any guy to do. If you can’t sit still, or if you start playing with your fork at the table, or if you can’t even look her in the eye, she’ll notice right away. Being nervous is a huge turn off to women; it either means that you lack self-confidence (a quality women love) or that you have something to hide.