Guys, have you ever read dating advice articles that tell you to get to work on your physical features? Have you ever read that trying to bring back your six-pack abs and working on those bi’s and tri’s is what’s going to bring the ladies in? Well it’s time to let go of that fantasy. Even though working on your body may help out with initial contact with women – no to mention the health benefits for you from the m the workouts – this is not the way to go if you’re looking for the love of your life. And that's especially to the 40+ crowd.
I’m sure you’ve also heard women give the old cliché characteristics that they’re looking for: Features such as the guy having to be sensitive, having a great personality, a fit build, dreamy eyes, etc. But these are generic responses to what women are truly seeking. Don’t be confused. The previously mentioned characteristics are definitely factors that women seek in a mate, but they're not what sparks attraction.
The most valuable asset that any guy can possess when it comes to looking for a mate is self-assurance. Having legitimate confidence in yourself is way more important than having a ripped body or a wallet full of money. You’ve seen it before. A man who would be considered average looking has an amazing looking woman at his side.
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