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By loveliness500
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Posted 4/15/09 9:40 AM

How do I avoid being "bookmarked"

Hi,

Does anyone know how to search this forum?  I am sure there is much information on this but I am new and do not know how to search.  I only want to search this board.  I would like some information on how to respond to the following....

I have spoken to several men I met online.  They will usually ask "when are you available"  or "you seem so busy, when are you  off?"  

 

It is Sunday or Monday and I hear: "Lets get together this Saturday".  I may respond "ok, just a sec let me check".  Then I ask, what do you have in mind?  He will ask, what do you want to do?  What time are you available?  or Lets talk then and come up with a time and place.

Help, I have know idea how to respond to these.

Loveliness

By breezy.
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Posted 08/07/09 6:51 PM

when they ask questions like

when they ask questions like when are you off just say you are real booked up and kinda trail off. the point is to get them to ask about a specific day and time. If he says lets get together saturday then ask him what time. if he says when are you free just say you are really booked up. if he doesnt get the hint then just tell him you have to go.

this is from memory from the lili files

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