People ask, "What am I supposed to do when dating? How am I supposed to act?" The answer is both simple and complicated.
There are trends in dating, as there are trends in fashion, food, shopping, spending, etc. There are many trends, each with a conflicting message. For example, on the issue of physical intimacy, some say the trend is that physical intimacy is expected within three dates. On the other hand, I just read an article that said celibacy is back on the dating scene.
Trends shouldn't rule or guide your dating experience. There is no particular way you are supposed to act when dating. If you want positive results from dating -- fun, and the potential for a long-term relationship -- you will act in a way that fits you.
Figure out what suits you when it comes to dating. How you date, as well as who you date, needs to be an intimate reflection of who you are. Self-knowledge is a key piece in making dating both fun and a "productive" experience.
There is one important part of dating trends that you do need to be concerned about: You need to know how your dating partners -- and, later, your relationship partner -- look at dating.
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