Meet A Great Guy For The Holidays

How To Meet A New Man For The Holidays

Dream of meeting your dream guy now so you’ll have someone to share the season with? The holidays, believe it or not, are a great time to meet a new romantic person. Why? It’s an instinct. Humans desire to gather together during times of celebration, not to mention to shut out the cold and dark.

Holidays are the time of year when people get together. That makes it easy to meet new men, or get a chance to better know someone you’d like to know more about. The weeks leading up to Christmas and straight through the New Year always offer countless opportunities to connect. At work there’s always some kind of office party, not to mention the unofficial after-work gatherings where office mages get together at the neighborhood place down the street.  And don’t forget Secret Santa.

Another great place to meet new men during the holidays is large family gatherings. Don’t have an enormous Italian, Greek, or Irish family with too many cousins to count? Get yourself invited to one of your friends’ huge gatherings. Usually at that type of event, invited guests are encouraged to bring friends. Not only do the hosts love showing off to a new audience, but people expect that it’s at weddings, traditional dinners like the Feast of the Seven Fishes (the traditional Christmas Eve dinner among Italian Catholics), even funerals were couples might first meet. So go to huge family parties to meet new men. And it’s safe, because at least people already know him.

December is also the festive-events season and there are usually many in your community. This is the time of year many special professional luncheons are held, as well as community calendar board events like art shows, trunk shows, wine tastings, lectures. You never know who you’ll meet there. Many churches and synagogues also schedule special events specifically for singles around this time of year. Get involved with charity. Volunteer. Nothing special to do Christmas morning? Sign on to work at a Christmas dinner for people living in area shelters. Not only is it a wonderful thing to do and filled with fun and camaraderie among the volunteers, but you very well might meet a really nice single man volunteering, too. And if like you, he chose to give to charity on Christmas Day, it’s a pretty safe bet that on a spiritual level, you’re on the same page. There’s no reason to be alone for the holidays if you don’t want to be. All you have to do is put yourself out there, and you’ve got a great chance to meet somebody. Eve Marx is the author of eight sex books. Her titles include "What's Your Sexual IQ?," "Flirtspeak: The Sexy Language of Flirtation," "The Goddess Orgasm," and "101 Things You Didn’t Know About Sex."
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