Q&A: The Woman I'm Dating Doesn't Want to Have Sex

Talk and Open Doors: Some interesting information may come to light when you have your talk. Aside from her religious convictions, she may fear that you'll find her unattractive or that she'll disappoint you sexually. Or maybe she's understandably cautious about sexually transmitted diseases. And perhaps she's just not interested in sex. Why play mind games? How very, very appealing we are when we assert our needs and get to the point!If this lady isn't interested in the sexual aspects of your relationship, she could still be a wonderful friend. Realize there are many more avenues to explore. Numbers don't lie -- there are many women from which to choose a friend and lover. The choice is really yours. There's no magic word, potion or action -- your lady will take care of her own needs. Ultimately the magic lies with you to do the best for your life and happiness.Give Yourself Attitude Latitude: Self-esteem and a can do attitude are turn-ons for both men and women. No matter where this relationship goes, a great attitude will always serve you well. Questions to ponder:1. How do you present yourself -- your tone of voice, facial expressions, and posture?2. How needy are you? If she's picking up on neediness, it could be pushing her in the other direction. Focus on what you want and avoid preoccupation with what you might lose if you pursue your lady and don't get the prize. So, chin up, chest out, and practice confidence.