Quick Quiz: Are You Relationship-Ready?

What is "ready"? Readiness is all about attitude, about being emotionally prepared to date. Do you match this formula?

R: Recovered from the past, hopeful about the future
E: Engaged in activities that make you fun and interesting to be with
A: Accepting attitude toward men
D: Destined for love because you believe you can shape your destiny
Y: Yearning to connect and communicate with a loving and nurturing partner who respects your values, shares your interests and wants a close relationship

Find out whether you are psychologically prepared to embark on a new relationship. Take this quick quiz.

1. My past relationships, though painful at times, have taught me to be more caring and accepting. (True or False)

2. Men are a lot of fun to be with. (True or False)

3. I'm a lot of fun to be with. (True or False)

4. An intimate and loving relationship is a top priority for me. (True or False)

5. I believe I can shape my future. (True or False)

6. Men are so irresponsible. Frankly, I don't know why I'm bothering to look for one. (True or False)

7. I'm looking for a man to make me happy. (True or False)

8. Love is destiny. If a relationship is meant to be, the right man will find me. (True or False)

9. I can take or leave sex. (True or False)

10. Shopping and dining at a good restaurant are two of my favorite activities. (True or False)

Scoring
If you answered "true" to questions 1 through 5 and "false" to 6 through 10, you're ripe for love. You've learned a lot from your life experiences. You have a joyful, vibrant, can-do way of thinking, and you're open to sharing with a like-minded, intimate partner.

Did you miss a few answers? You may want to reflect on your feelings about men and rev up your enthusiasm.

Reprinted from: The Boomers' Guide to Online Dating; Copyright © 2005 Judsen Culbreth. Permission granted by Rodale, Inc., Emmaus, PA 18098.
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