Ten Rules Of Online Dating

Dress up, but not too much. It’s nice to put your best foot (and face) forward, but unless your date is with an heir to Harry Winston, don’t reveal too soon that own a lot of genuine bling.  Ask him some questions about himself, including how long he’s been online dating. You want to find out if he’s a player or is serious about finding a long term connection. Also, ask him about his last serious relationship and why they broke up.  Don’t tell him where you live. Again, this is just a security precaution. You don’t have to lie. Just be politely evasive.  Bring cash money to pay for your dinner or drink. A lot of women expect to be taken out, and if he offers, that’s nice. But when you don’t pay, you’re a bit beholden. Going Dutch makes for a more level playing field.  See how he minds his manners. It’s not just whether or not he pulls out your chair. How does he treat the server?  When you say goodnight, say goodnight. Even if it was a really great first date, don’t hang around and linger. And definitely don’t let him get in your car until you really know him. Confined space, and all that. When you’re having fun, you don’t think about the danger. The internet is full of nice people, but it’s also full of criminals. Alas, the difference isn’t always important. Eve Marx is the author of eight sex books. Her titles include "Whats Your Sexual IQ?," "Flirtspeak: The Sexy Language of Flirtation," "The Goddess Orgasm," and "101 Things You Didnt Know About Sex."  What's your online dating pet peeve? Let us know here!