12-Steps to Debt Relief

By Leo Babauta

Debt is a major problem for a lot of people these days. The problem is, even if they know they want to get out of it, they have a hard time figuring out how to start. 
If you fit this description, this program spells it out for you.

Now, there isn’t one way to get out of debt, and the best program should be tailored to each person’s individual situation. But if you feel like you just don’t know how to begin, this program is designed to give you a sort of guide — one that should be adjusted to fit your financial situation.

It’s aimed not at people who have their finances together and are just trying to pay off a credit card or two. It’s aimed at those who have trouble finding any extra money to pay off debts, who seem to find themselves getting deeper and deeper into debt, and don’t know how to stop it. In other words, it’s a bit of an emergency program.

Disclaimer: I’m not a financial advisor, and if you are in need of one, I suggest you find a qualified advisor. My only qualification is that I’ve gotten my finances under control,  eliminated my debt, set up an emergency fund and I now pay all my bills on time. This program is based on my experiences, and on the large number of books and websites I’ve read.

The 12-Step Get-Out-of-Debt Program

   1. Acknowledge the problem. The first step is admitting you have a problem. The first week, all you have to do is say to yourself, “I have a problem with debt. I got into this because I spend money I don’t have. But I believe that there’s a way out, and I can do this. I can control my spending, make a plan, and slowly get out of debt.” That’s a major step. Now set aside just 30-60 minutes a week to deal with your finances — make it a set day and time, and don’t let yourself miss this appointment.
   2. Stop digging. If you’re in a hole, the first step is to stop digging, and that’s what you’re going to do this second week. For 30 days, see if you can stop any non-essential spending. If you have a major problem with credit cards, cut them up. If you’re not so bad with credit cards, at least put them away and don’t buy stuff online for one month. What’s essential? Obviously your bills, housing, auto, gas, groceries … that kind of stuff. Non-essential? Clothing, CDs, DVDs, books, magazines, gadgets … you know what I mean. Just 30 days. After that, you can decide how much to spend on these things.
   3. Make small cutbacks. This third week, take a look at things you normally buy and see if you can cut out a few of them, or spend less on them. Groceries? See if you can buy house brands instead of name brands. Coffee? Make it yourself at home instead of buying out. Lunch? Try packing it to work instead of eating out. Add up what your cutbacks will save you this month.

Kats5dogs's picture
I agree with you. This plan works for people who actually have the extra money to begin with, and can cut out dinners out, etc. My bills always come first and there are many weeks I eat bread for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Oh well, I'm sure the plan will help some people.
gnulife4me's picture
LOL you're kidding right? When you have more going out than coming in, there is NO discretionary money to spend! Try finding a second job, there aren't any out there. I've cut out cable, phone, groceries and I don't use my car unless absolutely necessary ( going to work), and I still can't make it. Start a savings! HAH...I can't even file bancruptcy because I can't afford a lawyer! I have no health insurance, and live from day to day.... try making a PLAN with that. Too funny!
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