I have been divorced for about seven years. This was my third marriage, but one thing was different; I didn't feel "alone" after he left. Most of my life I have been a "Care Giver." This is the first time I have concentrated on my needs and what I want out of life. My question is: most of my family and friends keep trying to set me up with men. I'm working two jobs so I will be debt free before I retire. For the most part I am happy with my life. But nothing I say seems to get through to them. It's not that I want to spend the rest of my life alone, but I am very picky about who I would want to spend the rest of my life with. Am I wrong for being so picky this late in life? For workng so much?
Dear cjr2148,
Thank you for asking me to answer your question.
The short answer is you get to choose how you live your life. And you are to ... Read More...
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