Cheating

I understand how you are feeling as I too have "been there" as my ex was cheating on me for nine months before I even found out! He even lived with his mistress in Canada where he had been working and where she is from for two years while he was still married to me! He wound up divorcing me for her but I fought hard to try and save my marriage for those two years but in the end, I lost! We were married for 35 and a half years and have six kids'! What he told me was that he was'nt "right" for me or I was'nt "right" for him or we were'nt "right" for each other! What I know and realize now even though I still love him is it just is'nt worth putting yourself thru the hell! It's better to just let him go and try to move on as I am still trying to do! If it's "in the cards" and meant to be as I'm still hoping it is for me, one day he will realize the mistake he's made and come back to you!