General Opinions Appreciated

General Opinions Appreciated

For a while now I have been dissatisfied with marriage overall.  I can be very philosophical and sometimes believe that
marriage is not a natural state for people, so I am very critical of my
feelings because I am aware of this. 
Here goes:  We get along, care for
each other, but hardly spend quality time together, have no mutual friends, very
different families, and have become bored with each other.  My husband ignores things.  He likes to pretend everything is fine.  We’re both young, and rarely have sex
anymore.  Even in the beginning, after
about the first year of marriage, we’ve had sex maybe once a month or two months.  I also feel like I have given up on life,
ambitions, etc. because he has had opportunities; hence, I have followed.  I work, but feel like I have given up.  I no longer have the ambition/drive that I
once had and find myself asking…. Is this what it’s all for for women?  Since elementary, study, go to college, work
hard to pay for school, get married (to a good guy I must admit), not have sex anymore, have kids, and that’s it.  I don’t have children, never really wanted
any, but have considered having one mostly out of loneliness now and the fact
that I’ll probably want someone around when I’m older.  I know this is not a good idea…. I’m just
ranting my thoughts.  The sex part does
bother me though and I wanted to know if this is “normal” and other general
opinions.  Thanks.

Oh... and it's Friday night, two hours since my husband could have been home from work, and I'm sitting here with my cat, writing this.  :)

At least I'm laughing.