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I feel so pathetic..trying so hard to make things work.
Posted 10/18/08 6:38 PM
I feel so pathetic..trying so hard to make things work.
What can I say...I hate to quit. I know that relationships can be challenging..but
When I try over and over.. and still .. there are excuses from him as to why he moving back is a problem... or does not extend himself on my behalf, I feel so deflated.
I have tried to show him ...tried to tell him what I needed to feel like things are "right"...as honestly.. things have not been right..for SO long.
I have written heart felt letters and cards.. and get no repsonse.. and quite frankly..I am not a bad person at all. You would think I was a shrew by the way he treats me..its ridiculous.
Ugh.. I feel so awful to have to face this now.. as I know he will not step up to his
responsibiliites of the relationship so things will get better.
So, Pathetic should be my user name.. as it has been 8 years since I have lived with him..
Shoot me now..
Posted 10/27/09 2:58 PM
He is the pathetic one
You have tried. The ball was put in his court. He is pathetic, not you!!! Try to quit beating yourself up.
I left my husband because he like the internet more than me. Yes, that is how we met. I saw the writing on the wall and beat him to the punch.
Posted 10/07/09 12:06 PM
Your life isn't over yet.
Your life isn't over yet. So, close out the pity party and get yourself to a competent Professional counselor or therapist and let the healing begin. In the meantime, let go of him and move on.
Posted 06/28/09 1:23 PM
I just want a woman who
I just want a woman who doesn't care who is old or young for me , I just want some one who I can talk to
P.S I don't want to be judged for my young age I've been though so much and just want some one to share pains so we can feel peace. : )
Posted 06/28/09 1:17 PM
And when people find out my
And when people find out my age is like my personality doesn't matter anymore.
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Posted 06/28/09 1:15 PM
I feel I have to act my age
I feel I have to act my age just to have some one like me and it makes me really sad
Posted 10/28/08 2:55 PM
Chin up
Since you don't say how long you have been trying, I can only assume you did not foolishly give 30 years of your life to a one-sided relationship as I did. Do not wait any longer. There IS life out there after divorce. You may suffer bouts of sadness, loneliness and depression, but you will find something very valuable - YOUR SELF WORTH. Please know that you are not alone, get some counseling or talk to someone. It helps.
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