1. When's enough enough? How do I know when to consider divorce?
We believe strongly that if you're in a situation that's physically or mentally unhealthy, you've got two options: Work to improve the partnership or get out. Of course, solutions happen overnight, but being part of an equal partnership means being able to articulate your concerns and working together on solutions. If one partner is unable or unwilling to collaborate and create a lifestyle that's mutually beneficial, then it may be time to consider calling it quits and get to rebuilding a more fulfilling and stable life -- solo.
2. How do I tell my significant other I'd like to work on repairing our relationship?
Communicating sensitive issues is never easy, and it's important to be prepared. Simply saying "I'm unhappy," or "This isn't working," is vague and won't be an effective starting point for conversation. First, think about the specific components of your relationship or your partner's behavior that are causing difficulties. Then, when broaching sensitive subjects, start out on a positive note by bringing up aspects of the partnership that are fulfilling and rewarding. From there, move on to the broken areas of the relationship with a focus on working together for improvement -- and not with an accusatory tone.
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