Well, here's the deal. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 1.5 years, and we have lived together nearly all that time. (Yes, rushed into things, I know.) Anyway, things were great at first, but slowly I feel like they are falling apart, and I'm getting to my breaking point. More detail of the situation: I feel like my boyfriend doesn't really love me anymore. I know he does, because of all the things he does to take care of us, but emotionally, he's not there. In fact, he's been pretty mean, and distant lately..I'm unemployed, and he works a lot to take care of us. I've been trying really, really hard to get a job. I've been really sick too...I spent two months in the hospital because of some infections and viruses, and I got fired. As soon as I was out of the hospital, I was looking for a job ASAP, and still am.We're moving this weekend, and I have taken care of everything. I even filled out HIS application FOR him!!! I cook, and clean, and do laundry...EVERYTHING. So he doesn't have to do a damn thing, I suffer from fibromyalgia, but he doesn't understand how hard it is for me to do all this, and how much pain I am in. I don't complain AT ALL. I would NEVER complain!!! He's doing so much. I tell him how often I appreciate him, and I am always doing little things to show him...like buying a special snack for his lunch, or making him music play lists for his MP3, or making him a piece of art...I know it's not much, but we have minimal amounts of money so I do what I can.Then he gets mad at me. I didn't do the dishes for a few days because I'm on my period, and I also have Endometriosis, so I am pretty much rendered useless. He comes home, and says to me, "So what do you do all day?" In a very mean tone. I explain to him I've been in a lot of pain and I wasn't able to get to it. His response? : "If all I ask of you is to do the dishes, then you should have at least enough respect to DO THEM!" Then when I get upset and cry (I never do so in front of him, I always excuse myself to the bathroom) he gets mad and says that , "Wtf is your problem? You're never happy!!!" How am I supposed to be happy when whatever I do is never good enough?He says that I never tell him anything, but then when I text him and let him know what's going on he's a complete asshole. For example I texted him: "Ugh...I've been feeling sick all day...I hope you are having a better day than me!" He responded, "What are you getting at?" And then when I explain to him I'm just trying to let him know what's going on, because he was complaining about it, he says, "Well don't text me while I'm at work." We used to text eachother all the time....it breaks my heart.He used to love me so much, but I feel like he doesn't anymore. He takes care of us financially, yes, and I understand that he is tired. I don't push or get upset when he doesn't give me the emotional connection that I need. He barely tells me he loves me anymore, and when I say it to him, he rarely says it back. He won't hold my hand in public...I don't get upset anymore...I love holding his hand. I tell him constantly that just a mere kiss and a "I love you" would leave me feeling a whole lot better emotionally, than absolutely nothing. I rarely get that though. Today, I gave him a peck on the cheek before he left for work, and told him I loved him. His response? See you tonight.Gosh I'm sorry that this is so long, I just feel like our relationship is falling apart, and I want to save it. I'm doing everything that I can, but he always seems to be able to find fault, like I'm not preforming my "girlfriend" duties or something (he's never said that...but he makes it pretty obvious that's how he feels)...I need help, I don't know what to do. I have tried talking to him, but the only thing that happens is that he becomes upset at nearly ANYTHING I say and refuses to converse further. Even when I am completely calm and have thought things through logically to come up with the best way to approach things...HELP!!!!