Welcome to The Rules Support Group.
Our 4 Weeks discussion is about not waiting indefinitely for men to sort out their lives. In a Rules relationship, a man either proposes within a year -- two years max! -- or it's, "Next!" You may have to dump him if he can't commit. If you have been dating him for more than a year and he has somehow avoided the issue, ask him his intentions. If he has no plans to marry you, say "Okay," and never see him again. If he plans to marry you someday, ask him when? If it's more than a year pull back -- stop seeing him for a few weeks. Shake things up and see how he responds. Think about dating others! Men don't necessarily propose on the couch but do so when they're afraid of losing you.
