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How do men and women feel about the games
Posted 4/15/09 10:59 PM
How do men and women feel about the games
I have read, women never call a man, wait three days after he calls you. Never be available on a weekend. If you hit it off what is the big deal and why wait around at our age.
We hear be honest, I want someone honest, I am honest. I do believe in courtship, that is to say get to know each other and see how you relate in public. I do wonder does anyone feel because we are past fifty that perhaps just being honest is best.
I am home on the weekend, I would love to see you. If you call me and I have your number as a woman why can't I call you? It appears to me by the third date you should have some idea if your really in tune, if not and you are a seeing more than one person be honest.
However if you both say hey we really like each other, no one else is in the picture, what is the big deal about the game playing. We are older now and life is not going to get easier, so why the games>
I would like to know how men really feel about the games and women.
I want to relish the courtship but I do feel that there is no real need to lie and entice each other with out and out lies about I am busy when your not. We should be past that at our age. Get on with it and enjoy each other as often as possible if you really feel an attraction.
I hear the smart ones know the game. Anyone care to comment?
Posted 09/10/09 4:40 PM
Open honesty is the Best Policy
In my experience, game players get along best with game players, not honest people. This is because two game players delude each other for a while, then wander away and lose interest because they are strangers: their relationship is based on anything but who they really are and what they are really feeling. In contrast, people who are open and honest know right away whether they can be good friends, and that's important because it is the only real basis upon which to start a romance.
Posted 06/30/09 7:09 AM
In my experience
The relationships that worked for me are the ones where I didn't have to play any headgames...we both just wanted to see each other and things just fell into place. Sometimes if you have to struggle too hard, it just doesn't feel right. It should be a mutual desire to want to be with each other ... that's how it worked with me, but I know everyone's different...
Posted 04/28/09 12:54 PM
the games people play!
Get on with it and enjoy each other as often as possible if you really feel an attraction.
I hear the smart ones know the game. Anyone care to comment
sounds like good sense to me.......and good sense is hard to come by these days......
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