Single During the Holidays? It Could Be Worse

Bridget: Will find nice sensible boyfriend and stop forming romantic attachments to any of the following: alcoholics, workaholics, sexaholics, commitment-phobics, peeping toms, megalomaniacs, emotional ****wits, or perverts. Will especially stop fantasizing about a particular person who embodies all these things.

Mark Darcy: Mother, I do not need a blind date. Particularly not with some verbally incontinent spinster who drinks like a fish, smokes like a chimney, and dresses like her mother.

-- "Bridget Jones's Diary," the movie

It might be your great-aunt Bertha or your overly concerned mother or even a well-intentioned married friend. If you're single during the holidays, someone is bound to point it out.

Even science loses its dispassionate cool when it come to marriage and relationships.

The Mayo Clinic's website offers tips on recognizing holiday depression and stress triggers. No. 1 on the list is relationships.

"Relationships can cause turmoil, conflict or stress at any time, but tensions are often heightened during the holidays. Family misunderstandings and conflicts can intensify -- especially if you're thrust together for several days. On the other hand, facing the holidays without a loved one can be tough and leave you feeling lonely and sad."

Excuse me, Mayo Clinic tips writer, but being alone during the holidays is better than being miserable in a relationship or suffering through a bad date. To prove this point, I surveyed a selection of A-lister singles -- attractive, intelligent, funny people: a writer, a graduate student, a former television news anchor and a lawyer. Two men, two women, spanning in age from mid-20s to mid-40s, they shared their hilarious bad date experiences. So the next time a frenemy passes a sympathetic, pitying or snide comment, you should laugh and be thankful.
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