What Makes You Come Alive?

I have been talking to people throughout the U.S. and around the world and I am asked the same question: "What should I do to help make the world a better place? There seem to be so many problems we face, I don't know what I should do." I like to quote Howard Thurman. He was Dean of Theology and the chapels at Howard and Boston universities for more than two decades, wrote 20 books, and in 1944 helped found the first racially integrated, multicultural church in the United States.

When asked by a student about what the world needs, he responded, "Don't ask, what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive." I think that's wonderful advice and I've tried to follow it.

I believe that the Ship of Civilization is sinking and those who wish to survive and thrive are getting into lifeboats, rowing away from the sinking ship, and creating a new way of life that is truly sustainable and in balance with the Earth. I picture the Ship looking something like the Titanic having struck an eight-sided iceberg with each jagged point representing one of the following consequences of our addictive way of life:

  1. Economic Implosion.
  2. Environmental destruction.
  3. The end of cheap oil.
  4. Global warming.
  5. Population overshoot.
  6. Food practices that are killing us.
  7. Male despair and global violence.
  8. Wild-Card "Black Swans" such as a world-wide Pandemic

Although we can become immobilized with fear when we try and deal with this huge iceberg, when we look more closely we see that it really isn't so frightening up close. Each one of the "problems" can really be reduced to a mind-set of "more." We have been seduced by the illusion of progress to think that we need more money to buy more stuff that is made with more cheap oil and produces more people so we can eat more and more food that makes us fat and fight more wars with more high tech weapons and create more fearful ways we can die.

A client of mine who was dealing with multiple addictions said it well. "My drug of choice is more. I seem to want more of everything. Too much is never enough." We have become a culture addicted to more stuff we're extracting from the Earth and the Earth is telling us that "enough is enough." Trying to get more and more of a limited resource just keeps us on a path of addiction.The way out is to find what makes you come alive. When you think deeply, what makes us come alive has little to do with acquiring more stuff. For me it involves things like walking in the woods, working in the garden, spending time with my children and grandchildren, writing about the beauty of the world we can create together once we stop our crazy addiction for more. What makes you come alive? What part of this wonderful world of the future would you like to help bring into being?Jed Diamond, Ph.D.Come visit me at www.MenAlive.com and sign up to receive your free e-newsletter.
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