How to Find the Time for Romance

Every moment you spend on your romantic life can be richly rewarding. Make the most of the limited time you do have.

If You've Met Your Match
Plan ahead. Sit down with your partner and take out those day planners or handheld organizers and pick a time that works for both of you to schedule a date.

Too busy to block out a large chunk of time? Even a few minutes each day can make a difference. Meet in a quiet room -- no television -- to sit and share five things that happened to you that day, and ask your partner to share his or her five. Don't limit yourself to describing events; share an interesting revelation or an emotion you experienced.

Because you have so little time to spend exclusively with your mate, explore ways to add spice and romance to other aspects of your life. Shower together, commute together or do weekly chores at the same time. Even routine moments such as these can help strengthen your bond.

If You're Still Looking for Love
Consider an online personals service. Browse to see if someone interests you, or post your own profile so potentials can find you, too.

Not sure where to start? Check out The Do's and Don'ts of writing a personal ad. All communication is anonymous until you're ready to take it to the next step.

You'll be surprised at how many amazing singles just like you are out there seeking romance. Schedule just a few minutes each day to check new ads, or set aside time on the weekend to respond to the private e-mails you receive. Romance will bloom in no time. Want face-to-face interaction? Skip the singles bar and involve yourself in real-world activities where you'll encounter interesting people. Volunteering, for example, is a great way to meet someone who shares your values. Try Habitat for Humanity, or check out Volunteer Match to find opportunities in your area.
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