Panel: Marriage's Best Days Have Gone By

By Ellen McCarthy

WASHINGTON -- The institution of marriage in the United States has steadily declined in strength over the past four decades, according to a report released last month by a panel of scholars and advocates.

The U.S. Marriage Index, the brainchild of David Blankenhorn, president of the Institute for American Values, seeks to quantify the health of marriage in the United States in the same way economists use leading indicators to parse the state of the country's economy.

"We're just proposing a way of numerically capturing these trends so that people can see them," he says.

The index combined five statistics -- the percentage of adults between the ages of 20 and 54 who are married, the percentage of adults who reported being a "very happy" with their marriages, the percentage of first marriages intact, the percentage of births to married parents and the percentage of children living with their own married parents -- to reach a composite score illustrating the state of America's nuptial unions. In 1970, that score totaled 76.2; by 2008, it had dropped to 60.3.

Almost 90 percent of children were born to married parents in 1970; last year, it was 60 percent. Of adults between ages 20 and 54, 78.6 percent were married in 1970, compared with 57.2 percent in 2008. The portion of first marriages that remained intact dropped from 77.4 percent in 1970 to 61.2 percent last year.

Blankenhorn says the index was born partly out of his frustration with the difficulty of talking publicly about the subject of marriage.

"There's a lot of genuine opinion out there that really marriage is something that we ought to leave to people's private decision- making and it's not society's business to get into," he concedes. "You're going into their bedroom. You're going into their private lifestyle choices. You're going into situations you can't possibly understand."

Source: YellowBrix, The Washington Post
igotu's picture
From a psychology and cultural point of view a family has 2 wings to fly Mom and Dad and when those 2 wings R not in good health not to mention that one is brken and removed then how do U expect that bird (family) to fly in life???? Other that the social and cultural aspect not to forget the psycho one which is deep dpwn in the subconscious.
parttimer's picture
I feel for all of these people. They all have their own particular set of problems. There is no easy answer for any of them. All I can say is this, from a single man who dates very little. If I were any of those men, get it while you can and as often as you can, while you still can.
sanwright's picture
#1) My mother, my grandmother, my greatgrandmother, my great-great grandmother NEVER got divorced and NEVER worked outside the home. You need to add this to your study and see if there is a correlation between working women and divorces. Most of most friends who are still married do NOT work outside the home. If a woman is trying to be a woman and being a man by spending all day working outside the home.... well it just doesn't WORK and people get divorced! #2) I advocate 1-year renewable marriages. You are automatically divorced at the end of each anniversary, unless you file the paperwork to STAY MARRIED. It would make DIVORCES just as easy as MARRIAGES. It is soooo easy to get married maybe we should make it just as easy to get divorced!
framelitone's picture
Marriage is almost worshipped in our culture. Yet there are more and more failed marriages, and committed couples are opting out of marriage. Why? Maybe it's the artificiality of the institution. It was conceived as a means of keeping the "little woman" in her place, but today, thankfully, women are achieving something close to equality. A woman can actually remain single and more and more people will respect her for her decision and not feel sorry for her because she "couldn't get a man". At least the vows in most religious ceremonies no longer require the woman to "love, honor and obey". I personally feel the "decline in the health of marriage" should be a spur for us to examine the validity of the institution itself.
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