When couples are together for a long time, complacency may set in. Life falls into a pattern. Fight the boredom by Strengthening the Couple Relationship.
This site, aimed at Nebraska families, notes that a marriage needs to be nurtured and fed with creativity. There are a number of components that should be present in a marriage in order for it to thrive.
The list includes trust, commitment, skills, caring, reciprocity, effort and expectations. Among the practical tips for enriching a relationship: set aside a certain time each day to spend with each other.
The site advises sharing positive thoughts and feelings with your partner rather than complaints. Express yourself by saying "I feel...," "I want...," and "I think..." Then, learn to listen and try to understand what your partner is saying.
