The subject of ear kissing is largely unexplored. What comments do you have regarding this? -- M.
Dear M.,
Ask yourself, how often have I actually taken the time to discover my partner's erogenous zones? Have I asked her or him what they like, and where and when they like it? When we begin to open up to our partners in these new, subtle ways, we open new doors to a full range of intimacy and connecting.
What better place to start than with the lips and the ear!
Our lips are extremely sensitive and receptive to stimulation. Practice using your lips in a soft, open way. Many of us hold our lips rather stiffly, not letting them relax and open to the receiving and giving required for good kissing. Part them slightly and keep them moist. This will heighten their sensitivity.
The ear is one of our main erogenous zones because it not only has many nerve endings, it also is situated near the neck, another highly erotic area. The ear is connected to our heart because it lends itself to listening to the words of Love.
As in any erogenous zone, the ear should be approached slowly, with a little teasing. With slightly open lips, spread your warm breath around the ear and behind it. Move in with very soft and light kisses. As your partner begins to react, begin to press your lips a little harder and with more ardor. Be gentle and playful.
It is helpful to experience lovemaking as a dance, with many moves and sentiments that can be explored on the dance floor of the bedroom.
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