Dear Suzie, My problem is quite personal. My height is 6 feet but the size of my penis is only 4 inches after erection. I am very tense about this. Can you help me? -- H.
Dear H., Ancient Tantrics knew the depth of the mind/body connection, and our modern scientific community has confirmed that the mind is our biggest erogenous zone. In other words, it's not what you've got, but how you use it and how you feel about yourself that counts. When we feel great about ourselves and have confidence and self-love, our world is more generous in the love and care that comes back to us.
Self-acceptance and self-love show another that you are lovable. Accepting who you are and consciously learning the love arts will put you miles ahead of even the most generously endowed man.
Fact: The G-spot is 1 to 1.5 inches inside any woman's vagina. It is one of the two essential spots in the woman that lead to vaginal orgasms and the possibility of multiple orgasms.
The well-endowed man will often miss the mark. It's only on the in-and-out that he may chance to come in contact with the right spot. You have an actual advantage, if you learn to use it.
It is best that a woman you partner with have well-developed Kegel, or pubococcygeus (pc), muscles. They're the ones that she notices are working when she stops and starts the urination process. With strong pc muscles, she will be able to "grab" you better to heighten the sensation for both of you. You will want to strengthen yours, too.
Certain positions will be better for you than others. Generally, frontal positions with the woman's legs up over your shoulders are great. This type of position will give you easy access and will give her a lot of maneuverability in her hips. The woman on top positions, along with their possible variations, will be good ones for you to master.
It's key that you know that you are fine the way you are. You can become a great lover by learning to last a long time, love tenderly and deeply and give to the woman you love as if she were the Goddess in her earthly manifestation!
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