For other men in this category, the mere act of a formal commitment may be enough to shut them down both emotionally and sexually. The fear of intimacy is too great. This is an issue that calls for professional counseling.
Bob and Susan are currently co-writing "He's Just Not Up for It Anymore: When Men Stop Having Sex, and What Women Are Doing About It," which will be published by William Morrow in 2008. If you are -- or have ever been -- in a sexless marriage or in a committed relationship where the man ended sex, Bob and Susan would love to hear from you. Click here to take their survey.
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