Toy to try: Boost your sex skills with the portable Peekaboo Pole Dancing Kit ($119.99; peekaboopalace.com). It's a chrome-plated pole that extends to reach ceilings up to 8.5 feet high, and it secures without screws.
Anything Goes
You've seen and experienced just about everything when it comes to sex, but you're still willing to take things even further.
Technique to try: Film yourself having an orgasm, and then share it with your partner. Watching it should turn up the temperature in your bedroom. Scared the tape will end up in the wrong hands? Destroy it after the private viewing.
Toy to try: The Astrea Remote Control Vibrating Thong ($80; howtohavegoodsex.com). These undies with a vibrating insert provide remote control, wireless stimulation whether your partner is turning you on 12 feet away or you're (discreetly) fiddling with the remote at an erotic poetry jam.
Zane's Sizzling Sex Tip of the Month
The best-selling author dares you to try something new.
Scent-Sations
Turn your search for a sexy new fragrance into a sensual endeavor. Take your lover with you to a department store, and dab different perfumes onto your wrists, the nape of your neck, your chest, behind your ear and so on for him to smell. Don't be surprised if he needs more than one lingering sniff to help you narrow down your choices.
Visit Zane online at planetzane.com.
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