Relationships: Divorce Hurts Kids' Social And Academic Lives, Study Says

Relationships that end in divorce not only leave children with a higher risk of developing anxiety, low self-esteem, loneliness and sadness, but can also negatively impact their social and academic lives.

According to a new study led by Hyun Sik Kim, a sociology doctoral candidate at the University of Wisconsin, children whose parents go through a divorce face setbacks in both their interpersonal skills and within the academic area of math.

"Somewhat surprisingly, children of divorce do not experience detrimental setbacks in the pre-divorce period," Kim said. “From the divorce stage onward, however, children of divorce lag behind in math test scores and interpersonal social skills. Children of divorce also show enhanced risk of internalizing problem behaviors characterized by anxiety, loneliness, low self-esteem and sadness.”

Kim and his colleagues conducted a long-term study surverying 3,600 children who were entering kindergarten at the onset of the study (2008). The team of researchers continued to survey the children through fifth grade and compared the children whose parents had gotten divorced while the child was in first, second or third grade, with the children whose parents were still happily married.

They found that children whose parents divorced while they were in first, second, or third grade had lower math test scores, trouble making and maintaining friends, and a stronger inability to express emotions and opinions in a healthy way. They also discovered that reading scores remained unaffected and children of divorced parents were not at a higher risk for behavior issues such as anger, arguing or fighting. "One implication of the study is that we need to intervene as soon as possible when we observe a child experiencing a parental divorce," Kim said. “Because my findings suggest that once children of divorce [have gone] through detrimental impacts, it is hard to make them catch up with children from intact families." The study was published in the American Sociological Review journal.
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