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Whenever my children come to visit and bring their grandchildren, I'm saddened to see how strictly my daughter-in-law disciplines the kids. I have to really bite my tongue. I've tried talking with my son about this, but he's not very responsive. Do I ask them to not come over any more? Should I lay down my own "house rules"?

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Try sitting down and chatting with both your daughter-in-law and son together. Share with them that you're not comfortable with the strict discipline ... Read More...

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I'm taking care of my grandchildren during the day as my daughter just returned to work. The situation is supposed to be temporary until they can find daycare ... but I'm finding that I love my time alone with my grandkids. I don't want to disrupt her plan, but I don't think she needs to pay for daycare when I'm having so much fun! What do you suggest I do?

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As a grandmother myself, I’d encourage you to tell your daughter how much you love spending time with your grandchildren. Why don’t you see if ... Read More...

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It seems like China is in the news constantly right now. Can you recommend some books about China so I will be more informed about this "rising" world power?

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You're right. China is very much in the news right now -- for a variety of reasons. And, whenever something is in the news, there are bound to be a ... Read More...

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I'm looking for a great book on the Nixon years. Any suggestions?

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There are plenty of good options out there. Since your question is fairly general, we will suggest three very different books and you can choose ... Read More...

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I recently developed asthma in my 40s and am looking for advice on how to manage the condition. Can you help?

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First, you need to find a good pulmonologist. These doctors specialize in respiratory diseases. Ask your general physician for a referral and ask ... Read More...

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I have diabetes and need to care for my feet carefully. Any advice?

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High blood glucose causes poor blood flow to the legs and feet, so if you have a sore or infection, you need to monitor it closely and tell your ... Read More...

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Can high blood pressure put me at risk for kidney disease?

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Yes, hypertension (high blood pressure) damages blood vessels, which can include those in your kidneys. If this happens, it can prevent waste and ... Read More...

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I have irritable bowel syndrome and my doctor said stress can aggravate it. Any suggestions on what types of stress-reducing activities I could do?

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Some simple activities to try -- and are easy to incorporate into a day -- are yoga and walking. If you're the type who would like to do it at home, ... Read More...

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I know I'm not hearing so well these days, but I loathe the thought of getting a hearing aid. I feel it's going to make me look old. Any advice?

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At the risk of missing out on scintillating conversation, you know you have to get a hearing aid. Luckily, there are hearing devices today that can ... Read More...

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I'm on hormone replacement therapy, and my friend told me it could affect my blood pressure. Is that true?

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According to the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute (NHLBI), blood pressure may rise in some women receiving estrogen therapy. However, a ... Read More...

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