Question for asked by jans

Dear K.,

How loving of you to use the word "encourage" rather than "make."

Making noise during sexual play is a total turn-on and helps us know where our partner is in the sexual response cycle. The signs of arousal and stimulation, especially in women, are very hard to interpret -- even with sound added.

When we open up our mouths to let sound out, we literally open up the body cavity and allow the energy and pleasure to be transported through us. It's almost physically impossible to fully let your pleasure be known to your partner through sound and hold your pelvic region muscles tight at the same time.

When we don't relax our genitals, we restrict the flow of pleasure. Opening up our mouths tends to make our pelvic region open up also. The possibility of full-body orgasms is then greatly enhanced.

The Tantric perspective is opened when we work towards a fuller capacity to orgasm. Risk of not looking good, of being "too much" and of getting embarrassed can hold our evolutionary processes back, which is a shame, especially considering that we're blocking and missing out on bigger pleasure and the possibility of pure bliss states.

Low, deep emanating sounds can lead to full-body, multiple orgasms that can very possibly include female ejaculation. Having the capacity to be in our bodies, in our pleasure and consciously learn to receive even more pleasure is our birthright. It's time we claimed those rights. And our partners want us to, also!

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