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Suzie Heumann

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Tantra and Orgasm

Dear Suzie,

According to Tantra, what are the different types of orgasms that most people experience? --D.

A:
Dear D., Tantric philosophy has two ideas about orgasm -- the physical orgasm and the heart orgasm. At first appearance they may seem dualistic ... Read More...
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Expert Advice: Eye Contact and Tantric Sex

Dear Suzie,

I am a 64-year-old male who recognizes the importance of Tantric wisdom. It surprises me that when I do searches on the subject of the power of the eyes in sexual arousal, I find nothing! Why isn't this subject explored more? -- S.

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Dear S., The eyes are indeed powerful allies. Tantric philosophy sees the open eye as a metaphor for an open life and an open heart. To ... Read More...
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Expert Advice: Making Noise During Sex

Dear Suzie,

My wife is very quiet when we make love. I'd like her to make noise. How do I encourage her? --K.

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Dear K., How loving of you to use the word "encourage" rather than "make." Making noise during sexual play is a total ... Read More...
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Expert Advice: Overweight and Insecure in the Bedroom

Dear Suzie,

I'm overweight and it's hard for me to enjoy sex due to my body insecurity. How can Tantric lovemaking help me get beyond this fear and help me enjoy sex? -- M.

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Dear M., Guess what: It's very likely that your partner loves your body -- especially if it responds to touch. Your insecurity is about your own ... Read More...
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Dear Suzie,

I've been married 16 years and I've never had an orgasm. My husband is extremely sexy; I am not. Do I retire to a monastery? --Anne

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Dear Anne, This is no one's fault. Approximately 26 percent of women report that they just don't experience orgasmic release. It's a ... Read More...
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Expert Advice: Variety is the Spice of Life -- Even in the Boudoir

Dear Suzie,

My boyfriend and I are sick of our same bedroom routine. What are some new Tantric techniques and positions that we can try to spice up our love making? -- L.

A:
Dear L., The philosophy of Tantra invites each of us to explore, create and risk in ways that produce new understanding and new connections with ... Read More...
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What types of experts are available to help us improve our sex life?

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In the tradition of ancient Tantric teachings, one learned the sexual arts from a guru or teacher. Unfortunately for Western culture, we are taught ... Read More...
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Expert Advice: Different Types of Orgasms

According to Tantra, what are the different types of orgasms that men and women can experience?

A:
Tantric philosophy has two seemingly different ideas about orgasm, the physical orgasm and the heart orgasm. At first appearance they may seem ... Read More...
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Expert Advice: Are the Ears Erogenous Zones?

Dear Suzie,

The subject of ear kissing is largely unexplored. What comments do you have regarding this? -- M.

A:
Dear M., Great question! Ask yourself, how often have I actually taken the time to discover my partner's erogenous zones? Have I asked her or him ... Read More...
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Expert Advice: Tantric Sex and Overcoming Insecurities

Dear Suzie,

I'm overweight and it's hard for me to enjoy sex due to my body insecurity. How can Tantric lovemaking help me get beyond this fear and help me enjoy sex? -- M.

A:
Dear M., You know what? It's very likely that your partner loves your body -- especially if it responds to touch. Your insecurity is about your ... Read More...
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