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Marcia Wieder

Having More


America's Dream Coach

What does it mean to you to have more? Exactly what do you want more of? Do you even know? This question requires you to schedule a short date with yourself, for the purpose of exploring what really matters to you and what you are willing to do about it. The Irish political activist Bernadette Davis reminds us, "To gain that which is worth having, it may be necessary to lose everything else." I know this takes unbounded courage and strength. Just remember, life is short. Live it your way. Read more…

Passion: The Key to a Longer and Healthier Life


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Living life just going through the motions? If so, you may be cutting your life short, as it's been medically proven that people with passion and dreams actually live longer, healthier lives. Read more…

From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be

The first rule of engagement in navigation of any kind, whether by land or by sea, is to take a reading on your compass before embarking on your journey. Thus, the road to your dreams starts with where you are now. You can't travel that road successfully if you don't take your starting point into consideration. Read more…

Integrity: The Key to Getting What You Want

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Integrity. It's the most critical attribute for realizing your dreams. When you live with integrity, dreams really do come true.

Integrity can be summarized this way: Say what you mean and mean what you say. Honor your word and agreements.

Yes, living with integrity sounds simple, but it's not always easy to follow through on. And when vastly overscheduled and under pressure, the person with whom it's most difficult to keep your commitments is, in fact, yourself. Read more…

Putting Your 'Dreamer' in the Director's Chair

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A cast of characters lives inside of you, and at different times may present conflicting or contradictory messages. Certain parts may encourage you: "Go for your dreams!" Simultaneously, other parts may threaten: "Don't you dare!"

However, if you want to be happy, successful and fulfilled, you need to put your "Dreamer" into the director's chair. Read more…

What Is a Dream?

Nothing happens unless first a dream. --Carl Sandburg

 

Most people think of dreams as either some kind of unattainable fantasy, or as something they do in their sleep. Neither of these definitions are what I mean when speaking of dreams. I define dreams as the aspirations, desires, goals and hopes that you most want for yourself. Moreover, these are the kind of dreams you have while you are very much awake. Read more…

Six Ways to Overcome Fear

As you get closer to fulfilling your dreams, don't be surprised if doubt and fear surface. The No. 1 way in which we sabotage our dreams is by asking things like, "But, what if?" and imagining the worst: "But, what if I ... fail, succeed, say or do the wrong thing ... or don't make enough money?"

With this thinking, as you move toward your dream, you'll also move toward your fears and worst nightmares. With too much to risk, most of us will give up or never even begin. Here are six ways to overcome fear: Read more…

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