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Support for People Who Are Just Starting Divorce

Are you just starting your journey through divorce? Divorce is a difficult, fearful journey, and you should not have to go it alone. Here is how to find support. More…

Men’s Hero Journey in Relationships: What Men Must Do to Become Intimate in Relationships and How Women Must Help Them

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com  If you read Robert Bly and Robert Moore, you will learn that men need to go on a hero’s quest to claim their full masculinity. These two insightful authors and countless others perceive the problems of men in our society as a lack of opportunity to grow up. There are no longer quests to fulfill. Men are no longer asked to grow in valor and strength of character, and they are no longer asked to mature emotionally. I believe the current problems of men and women in relationships have something to do with a lack of hero’s journey in men’s lives. Not that women are completely innocent, as you will see as you read this article. Women think nothing of pursuing men, putting up with bad relationship behavior. Women excuse men for being emotionally distant, physically and emotionally evasive, abusive, workaholic, unskilled relationally and generally hard to be in a love relationship with. Granted, not all men are hard to love, but many are, and many women and families, including men themselves, are suffering because of this and seeking a way to fix their relationship. One of the things that would help men be more relational and create happier relationships would be to More…

Best Books to Help Your Relationship and Yourself

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com Below you will find the best of the best books on love and relationships, for both men and women. These are some of my favorite books, the ones I suggest to clients when they are working on their relationship or single life. These are also the books I turn to when navigating my own relationship and life. Lately I have been re-reading many of these books and hearing from clients about them, and I thought I would share them with you this week: The New Rules of Marriage by Terrence Real This book is the manual for how to have a functional relationship and marriage, and a must-have for anyone in a relationship, good or not. It’s a great read for singles so that they know what to do once they are in a relationship. More…

Communication between Men and Women: Tips for Men

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com This week I was coaching a couple to help them save their relationship. As we were going through a list of what they wanted to change in their relationship, the same old communication issue crept up that creeps up in most relationships between men and women. Men tend to listen for what they can fix or how they can help. When a woman talks, a man is ready to offer suggestions and help solve problems. He will tend to get upset if the woman rejects his suggestions and doesn’t want to be told what to do. Women talk to their men, for the most part, in order to vent. This is especially true when women are talking about issues and events outside the relationship. (When women talk to their men about the relationship, they want change in the man.) This is a universal relationship problem that most couples have to deal with More…

Can You Change Your Relationship Partner?

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com We as a culture hold two popular views about relationship partners forcing change on each other. One view is that people do not change, and we should learn to accept one another as we are. But another very deep-rooted, albeit privately held, view is that we can change each other in a relationship. I think this sense that we can change each other and do so easily – that we can “train” our partner to be whom we want him or her to be – is what allows people to get into relationships with people who don’t initially meet their expectations. More…

Hope for Changing Your Partner and Your Relationship

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com Last week I had the privilege of being in a training workshop led by relationship expert and pioneer Terry Real. I am on route to become an expert in his brand of couples work. His system seems to be the only system that truly makes a difference in helping couples reconnect and stay happily together. More…

Using the Secret’s Laws of Attraction to Find or Fix Your Loving Relationship

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com Laws of attraction are all the rage right now, with “The Secret” driving the interest, so it’s high time we talk about laws of attraction as applied to your love life. Laws of attraction are based on a simple premise – you draw toward you that which reflects you. Life is a mirror and only shows you your own reflection. This applies to every area of your life, including relationships. There are no exceptions. What do I mean when I say “that which reflects you”? In the Laws of Attraction Language, this would be said as “that to which you are a vibration match.” In plain language it means that which you are having the most thoughts and feelings about. More…

Painful Relationship? Here's Pain Relief

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com Dear Reader, your almost-to-be ex-partner has treated you badly. You have been neglected, unappreciated, rejected, not communicated with. You may have been cheated on. You have been unsupported. You have been abandoned. You have been reacted to badly over and over again. You have been forced into agreeing to and doing things you have resented. You have been forced to ask for the love you used to get and clearly deserve. You have been frozen out and avoided. You have been asked for space when no more space could possibly be taken. You have been asked to have neither needs nor wants. You have been asked to live without intimacy and yet be willing to meet your partner’s needs when he or she wanted you. You have been put low on the priority list. You have been asked to put up with unacceptable behavior and accept it. You have ended up in a relationship that is painful, when all you wanted was love, kindness and happiness. More…

What You Should Not Put Up With In a Relationship

Your Love & Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com One of the things I have been doing over the last couple of weeks with clients is reflecting back to them which behaviors they should not be tolerating in a relationship. I thought you might find my current running list useful. More…

Resolve Conflict Effectively: Communication Script

 Your Love and Relationship Coach at www.FixYourLoveLife.com and www.LoveCoachBlog.com The following article is not written by me, but by my prosperity and abundance coach,  Jeanna Gabellini of www.MasterPeaceCoaching.com When I feel like I can't have what I want and I am working too hard and getting nowhere, Jeanna is who I call. She has amazing energy and is an inspiring and powerful lady. She is very much in touch with laws of attraction and coaches within the laws of attraction masterfully. When Jeanna is struggling with relationships, I am the one she calls. She wrote the following article about one of our coaching sessions for her: More…