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How to Satisfy Your Need for Touch When There's No One to Touch You

If you are single, you know the feeling of wanting to be held, touched, cherished; that need for passionate touch, comforting touch, any kind of touch – and the suffering that results from having no one to give you that touch. It’s not so well-known that many married people and people in relationships also suffer from the unfulfilled need for touch, physical comfort and passion. Their story is different from that of singles, and the reasons for the absence of touch in their relationship may be varied, from a good relationship gone bad to health issues involving one of the spouses. Most of us crave touch and can’t live well without it. Having to live without can be excruciating. So what does a person do when there is nobody to meet the need for touch? More…

How To Cope in a Love Triangle - Help for the "Other" Man or Woman

To be in love with someone who is in a primary relationship or marriage with someone else can be the most excruciating and at the same time the most seemingly beautiful experience of your life. In spite of the beauty and the connection in the relationship, you suffer tremendously. In this article you will find help understanding the reasons you are suffering in your relationship and coping strategies to ease your suffering. More…

Relationship or Marriage in the Dumps? Here’s How to Refresh It!

Is your relationship or marriage gasping for breath? Well, before you leave or stray to find a third person to meet your needs, try these steps to breathe life back into your relationship... More…

How To Know if You Are In A Good Relationship

Recently a client asked me how she would know if she was in a good relationship. If she was doing a good job at her work, she would get promoted. If she was doing well in school, she would get good grades. But if she was doing well in relationships, well, what would she get? The answer to this question may seem beyond obvious – you would have love, of course, one might say. But typically, people can’t tell whether they are in a good relationship or not. Can you? More…

Life and Love Coaching Comes to Prime Time TV

On Saturday night I just had to tune it to WB to watch a new TV show about how Life and Love coach coaches three young men on what to do to get into and keep a satisfying relationship. More…

Do Relationships Get Easier with Age?

Does the quest for love, and the issues we bring to the table when it comes to love, change and get easier with age? You would think so, and the conventional wisdom says so. The conventional wisdom says people mature and get wiser with age, naturally opening up more to others and learning how to have better relationships. However, this is not what I find when I look out into the world of singles and relationships, observe the media and work with clients. What I find is this: Those people who started out with good relationship and self-introspection skills More…

How Do You Satisfy Your Hunger for Love?

I am currently coaching a client publicly, using my blog and hers, to help her learn to attract a loving partner. It’s turning out to be quite an experience for both of us. In this past week she revealed what she was willing to do in the past to satisfy her hunger for love. You can see what she said by gong to her blog. Is my client so different from other people? You may think so, but I have seen perfectly rational, professional, responsible people do unbelievable, More…

Reality Coaching, Singles Help, Easy Health & Weight Loss, and Your Genius

I have been working on a couple of interesting projects lately, two of which I want to share with you. I have also been working with a coach to help me get a handle on my health, and I have been reading a great book about genius. These are the items in my grab bag of tools for you today. To start off, if you have ever wanted to get help with your love life, dating and relationships, I am sure you have heard about coaching. Even Dr. Phil now calls himself a coach. Well, à la Dr. Phil and the reality show genre, I am coaching a client of mine publicly on her blog and my own. Following the coaching can be quite exciting for you, as you get to see a real-life person work through her issues. It’s also exciting for her, as she is already having breakthroughs. Watch as Jodi, my client, gets coached to learn to attract the love of her life. More…

New Year Resolutions

Happy New Year to you, third age reader. I hope your year is off to a wonderful start. On New Year’s Eve I was watching the Dick Clark special. Never mind that not seeing Dick Clark till the end was sad, or that, when I did see him, his gaunt face broke my heart. There he was, the never-aging icon, suddenly aged by a stroke. Sure made me feel mortal. But I digress. Ryan Seacres was interviewing people on their New Year’s resolutions. I don’t know if the show was edited for this or if all the people Ryan picked had weight to lose, but everyone said their resolution was to lose weight. Apparently losing weight is one of the top ten resolutions people make for the new year. More…

How to Have Happy Holidays

Holidays are here. How are they going for you this year? Will you end up stressed, tired, and both emotionally and financially overextended? Or will you end the holidays and start the new year joyful, rested, relaxed, fulfilled, and happy? Will you spend the holidays bemoaning the fact that you are single or that your relationship is not working, or that something else is not working; or will you use the holidays to improve the situations that bug you? Here is my advice for a sweet, calm, nourishing holiday season: More…