Crying Is Healthy

Dont hesitate to open the floodgates just because of a recent study published in Science magazine suggesting that womens tears reduce mens testosterone, dampening their libido. Boo Hoo. Sounds like a lot of senseless blubbering to me.

I think Aristotle nailed it when he observed over 2,000 years ago that dramas that caused the audience to cry produced a catharsis a restorative emotional climax. If thats not stimulating I dont know what is. Whether you weep from frustration, grief, pain, passion, or joy, crying is healthy. So dont stop just because some people are whimpering about men losing their libido. Anything that tempers mens aggression is worth a tear or two.

In Crying: The Natural and Cultural History of Tears, author Tom Lutz refers to work by William Frey, a biochemist who collected tears shed by subjects watching sad movies and tears produced while cutting onions, which he found contained different chemicals. The emotionally induced tears contained leucine-enkephalin (an endorphin or natural opiate-like pain reliever), prolactin (released from the pituitary in response to emotional stress), and high concentrations of various proteins and hormones. Frey characterized crying as an exocrine process, like exhaling, urinating, and sweating, all of which release toxic substances from the body. Like Aristotle, he concluded that crying is a natural way of restoring balance to the body.

Anyway, who doesnt know womens tears are wasted on men? What kind of women raise mens testosterone level and heighten their libido? Lingerie models and female porn stars. Are they ever photographed crying? Noooo. Second, did anyone really think 50 men sitting around sniffing womens tears for a study would produce anything but a damper on feeling sexually stimulated? Third, what kind of tears were they sniffing? Tears generated from six women watching movies that are a guaranteed turn-off for men -- My Sisters Keeper about harvesting organs from one child to keep another alive, Life is Beautiful about the Holocaust, and Terms of Endearment about dying from cancer. Mens testosterone would drop just by sniffing the popcorn they were sharing with a women at one of those movies.And fourth, their testosterone level only dropped an average of 13 percent. If they really wanted to have sex with a weeping woman, they could pop a Viagra and get a bigger rise than 13 percent.A real discovery would be to test how mens tears affect women. I hypothesize women could be turned on by a big sob of anticipation prior to coupling, a sincere watery drop of saltwater at the corner of the eye. For women, tears may very well fan the fire of desire. If only men would stop whining about women.Judy Kirkwood bawls whenever she feels like it.
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