We have been married for 30 years,we spent 25 of those years working together side by side in a family business,at least 10 of those years have been sexually frustrating for me due to the fact he seemed to have a very low libido and frequently would ejaculate prematurely and then not show any interest in fulfilling me.
I had decided to take a job somewhere else and after 1 year he hired a woman who had a very dramatic life abusive relationships,alcohol and Iv drug use, multiple sex partners,abandoning a child,and history of pursuing married men.
He became sexually involved with this young woman,30 years old,he is 53, we have a daughter 28.I was suspicious of the relationship and asked him to fire the woman.he refused and became very defensive,