Feeling Happy? Thank Your Friends

If you're happy and you know it, thank your friends -- and their friends. And while you're at it, their friends' friends. But if you're sad, hold the blame.

New research from James Fowler of UC San Diego and Nicholas Christakis of Harvard Medical School shows that happiness spreads far and wide through a social network -- traveling not just the well-known path from one person to another but even to people up to three degrees removed.

In a study that looked at the happiness of nearly 5,000 individuals over a period of 20 years, researchers found that one person's happiness triggers a chain reaction that benefits not only their friends, but their friends' friends, and their friends' friends' friends. The effect lasts for up to one year.

The flip side, interestingly, is not the case: Sadness does not spread through social networks as robustly as happiness. Happiness appears to love company more so than misery. On average, every happy friend increases your own chance of being happy by 9 percent. Each unhappy friend decreases it by 7 percent.

The research also showed that happiness loves company. Happy people tend to cluster together, and, on the surface, people with more social contacts seem generally happier. Fowler and Christakis observe, however, that what matters there is not just the total number of connections but the number of happy ones.

According to the study, individuals' happiness depends not only on how many friends they have but also on how many friends their friends have. In social-network terms, this is known as "centrality." And the more central a person is -- the better connected their friends or the wider the social circle -- the more likely they are to become happy. (The effect does not work the other way around: Becoming happy doesn't widen a social circle.)This holiday season, during gloomy economic times -- which, if things get dire enough, might be called a "depression" -- it is heartening to know, said Fowler, that "happiness spreads more robustly than unhappiness" and seems to have a greater effect than money.
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