My husband confessed his affair to me last August, but things are currently better than ever. Unfortunately, I now seem to want to make the other woman's life miserable. I do not want to physically harm her, just to tell her parents and everyone at her workplace what a tramp she is.
How can I get over this anger at her for backstabbing me? I've thought about some outside counseling, but feel it is unnecessary because of my religious beliefs. I cannot seek counseling with my pastor, because he is my father. Any suggestions? --T. Cathy says: Don't do anything to her! Your actions will come back to haunt you ... Read Cathy's Full Answer> Steve says: You implied that your religious beliefs are part of your foundation. Now, as always, is the best time to take them seriously ... Read Steve's Full Answer> Members say: First of all, SHE is not the one who broke your vows. Your husband did that. You have misplaced your anger ... Read Member's Full Answer>