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My husband confessed his affair to me last August, but things are currently better than ever. Unfortunately, I now seem to want to make the other woman's life miserable. I do not want to physically harm her, just to tell her parents and everyone at her workplace what a tramp she is.

How can I get over this anger at her for backstabbing me? I've thought about some outside counseling, but feel it is unnecessary because of my religious beliefs. I cannot seek counseling with my pastor, because he is my father. Any suggestions? --T.


Cathy says:
Don't do anything to her! Your actions will come back to haunt you ...
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Steve says:
You implied that your religious beliefs are part of your foundation. Now, as always, is the best time to take them seriously ...
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Members say:
First of all, SHE is not the one who broke your vows. Your husband did that. You have misplaced your anger ...
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