I get discouraged when I read articles about tantric sex and its different positions. It seems as if it was all written for small-sized people. What about some positions that would suit a larger couple? -- P.
A great variety of positions come to us from the well-known Kama Sutra, and an even greater number of subtle variations exist for each of the position categories. Each can be played with, added to and explored by any size couple.
The positions that might best suit you are the rear entry, modified Yab-Yum, woman on top and scissors forms. The key may be to have a lot of varied-sized pillows around the bed so that you are perfectly comfortable with some of these modifications.
Rear entry positions are unique in that the woman is facing away from her partner. This keeps your tummies from competing for space, gives both of you maximum leeway to move around, and provides excellent G-spot stimulation. I highly suggest that the woman holds a hand mirror so that the two of you can eye gaze while loving!
The modified Yab-Yum has the man sitting on a fairly firm surface with his legs out and slightly apart. His partner sits on him with a firm pillow under her rear to support her. As a variation, she can lean back slightly against a wall or headboard, which would increase the friction on her G-spot.