Got the Seven-Year Itch?

Your sex life can get a little routine after a few years in a relationship. You know how to turn on your partner, and they know how to please you. Is casual sex really more exciting, or does a loving partnership make sex more intense? When the seven-year itch sets in, is it possible to turn back the clock and relive those passionate moments you shared when you first met?

The Attraction of Single Sex
Many people outside relationships enjoy free and casual sex with no strings attached. They savor the moment and don't worry too much about the future.

Having casual sex doesn't mean no responsibility. Both partners have to have the same outlook.

If one desires more than the occasional night of pulse-racing passion, then relationships can turn sour and end in heartache.

You can enjoy a casual relationship with someone you know, but having sex with a stranger can add more spice. It's easier to lose your inhibitions as you dare to try things you wouldn't with a person you know.

Most relationships go through an intense period of lovemaking.

You are obsessed with your partner and are driven to take every opportunity to get to know them intimately. Because you've taken the risk to invest more emotion in the bedroom, the sexual highs and sense of fulfillment are immense.

However, the intensity of sex changes after a year, and it's difficult to ignore the more mundane elements of life together.Which Is Better?Sex can always be exciting whether or not you're in love. The key is to know how to spice up a tired love routine and bring back some of the excitement of sex as a single person.How to Do It?If you want to have sex as though you were single, arrange to meet upas if going on a new date. Meet at a secret rendezvous after work. Onyour date, try to imagine you've only just met and listen to each otheras though it's the first time you've talked.To add more mystery, wear something new or have a new haircut. Thiswill add to the illusion of being strangers who have only just met.Book a night at a hotel, as this can feel like a truly naughty liaison and get your pulse racing.Alternatively, organize a secret session during your lunch break at work. It will feel like you're having a forbidden affair.When it comes to having sex, take time to get to know yourpartner's body again. Stroke every surface and find out what they enjoyand what really turns them on and dare to change your normal sexualroutine.Take time to change your attitude to your partner. Trying tosee them with fresh eyes and new inspirations should translate into newadventures in the bedroom.Source: Sunday Mirror (London). Powered by Yellowbrix.
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