Learning To Share Sex Fantasies

Share Your Sex Fantasies

While some sexual fantasies are best kept to oneself, others are just crying to be shared. Fantasies that should be shared are ones that involve your partner and that are, at heart, romantic. Fantasies that fall into this category usually are ones that can be brought to reality fairly easily; they often involve or revolve around a specific location (i.e. having sex in the bathroom of an airplane), a specific position (he’s always wanted to take you from the rear), a specific fetish (he wants you to wear lingerie or high heels to bed) or act (he wants you to talk dirty in his ear).

These are common male sexual fantasies that you can indulge and engage your partner in. To do so in an act that is generous.  A word about kinkiness, because fantasies can be kinky. What’s kinky is, at the end of the day, in the eye of the beholder. Often, what one person finds erotic and sexy might just seem a bit silly to their partner.

For example, your partner may believe his fantasy to have you envelop his penis between your breasts while you call him Worshipped Master is too banal and sophomoric a request to ask. For you, granting this wish and making his fantasy real might turn out to be just the opportunity you were looking for to display your theatrical talents

Sometimes sharing fantasies becomes a learning process. For example, you may discover via his opening up about his desire a latent desire of your own to dress and talk and posture like a dominatrix. Here’s a home truth about intimacy and intimate relationships. When you care deeply for your partner, and have that desire to please, you may find out what pleasures him, pleasures you. Love is like that. It’s magical. Eve Marx  writes frequently about sex and relationships for ThirdAge.com.
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