For almost everything we do in life, there's a long version and a short version. You normally sleep a full night, but you might also take short naps. You usually sit down to a full meal, but you might also stop at the corner burrito shop for lunch on the run. And when it comes to sex, we sometimes have a lot more time than others, so the quickie becomes a necessity in everyone's relationship.
Since women usually take longer to warm up for sex, the quickie usually means that only the man gets satisfied. And for that reason, it's a double-edged sword -- she may want it, but she won't likely get much out of it except frustration. But you can beat the bad rap with the Tantric "quickie."
The point of the Tantric quickie is to:
- Heighten your sexual energy. Unlike longer sexual situations, the quickie builds sexual charge rather than dispelling it through orgasmic and ejaculatory release.
- Practice being almost immediately ready for intimacy (especially for women).
- Train men to last longer and to feel their sexual energy without expending it.
- Fuel a heightened sexual tension between you and your partner. Sexual tension is peaked when you engage in fairly intense sexual play and then stop before resolution is reached. You'll want sex more often in this state.
- Quickly increase your level of intimacy. It's like having a secret that binds you together.
- Help regulate hormone levels in both women and men. This is due to the fact that the "quickie" encourages you to engage in sexual activity more often.
Here are some possible quickie scenarios. Each of these takes only 10 minutes and should be done one or twice a day on a regular basis, just like going to the gym. Put them in your schedule!
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