Three Ways To Deal

Youre relaxing in the bathtub, having a wonderful Calgon-take-me-away moment, when you look down and see something through the water that makes you flinch. Maybe you dont see all that well without your glasses, but this is an unmistakable and unwelcome sight. What you see is a gray pubic hair. Yes, wiry and very gray.

How to handle it? Well, think of it like that old game show, Lets Make a Deal. Remember the three magic doors and how contestants had to choose?

Door Number One is to dye it. Remember the expression Does the carpet match the drapes? If you color the hair on your head, you can color your pubes, but its not something you want to undertake at home because its messy and if the product contains peroxide, it could burn sensitive tissue. There are a few, very few salons, that specialize in coloring pubic hair, although most hair-care professionals do not recommend it. If you are still determined to give it a try, have a discreet discussion with a hairstylist you know well. She may know of a place or have a suggestion on how to accomplish the task safely.

Door Number Two is get snazzy. When it went white, I went Brazilian, a friend said, referring to a personal grooming style officially known as the Brazilian Bikini Wax. For the Brazilian, the pubic hair isnt merely trimmed or shaped, but completely removed to render the entire area as bald and smooth as a babys butt.

While many women love it and claim it rejuvenates their oral sex life, the Brazilian can be a hard look to pull off if youre self-conscious about a Caesarian scar or ill at- ease about resembling a pre-pubescent girl. The Brazilians popularity may be a young persons thing. Boomers who began their sexual lives during the all-natural Age of Aquarius are the least likely demographic to go hog wild over it.Door Number Three is to embrace the change. Chances are that your spouse or partners chest and pubic hair has gone gray; are you going to ask him to color or remove it? Just as a silvery mane of head hair can be glorious, a well-groomed gray mons veneris is also very nice. The secret is to keep the hair well conditioned as gray hair tends to be coarser and wirier than hair with natural color. Use the same product you use on your head, although be sure to rinse it out and avoid leave-in conditioners. And though at first it may be shock, ultimately, like a lot of things, turning gray down there becomes a giggle. Besides, we bet hell still love you when there are silver threads among the gold, no matter where they are.Eve Marx writes frequently about sex and health for ThirdAge.com.
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