Most of us didnt receive a crash course in sex education in our younger years, but we certainly collect quite a few observations by the time we hit our golden years.
In this Prevention article, writer Gail Belsky lists the top 40 things we should all know about sex by the time we turn 40. The facts range from the obviouswidth beats lengthto the more obscure (did you know that wearing socks almost doubles your chances of reaching an orgasm?).
Here are our favorites:
Everyones doing it
Feeling frisky? Masturbatethats what most women are doing these days.
According to a 2004 survey by AARP, half the women between the ages of 45 and 49 have practiced self-stimulation in the previous 6 months.
But theyre not alone in the bedroomin a 2009 survey by the University of Indiana, more than half the respondents used a vibrator at least once, with a quarter having used one in the previous month.
Hes the problemnot you
Middle-aged men may have difficulty maintaining an erection as their testosterone levels drop. Termed male menopause, most men experience a steep drop in their testosterone levels between the ages of 45 and 50.
So if he takes longer or is less gung-ho, go easy on him...and yourself, Belsky advises.
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