His Sex Fantasies Revealed

It's been well documented that men think about sex all the time,and that the most popular male sexual fantasy is one man having sex with two women. But that's not all they think about.

Other known popular fantasies about sex for men include watching two women make love to each other, having quickie sex with a complete (female) stranger, hooking up with someone forbidden, like their wifes sister, or a co-worker, even a female boss. The beautiful thing about imagination is that its uncensored and free. In the world of fantasy, anything is permissible, precisely because it is fantasy. Its not very likely to happen in real life.

But theres another enduring fantasy that can be made real: to be dominated. The biggest complaint married men have about their partners is that they always have to be in charge. Men love it when their wives or long-time partners surprise them by changing things up; its a relief and a release for a man to take the subordinate or submissive role sometimes, even more so if in real life, the man actually is a boss!

An easy thing to do that many men enjoy is to use a blindfold, which the woman uses to cover her partners eyes. If you dont have an actual blindfold, a silk scarf, even a pair of pantyhose, works just as well. Merely not knowing whats going to happen next is exciting. Taking one of the most important senses sight out of the equation can produce miraculous results.

When a couple engages in role play or any other sexual fantasy game, its important for both parties to remember that what they are doing is just that: a game. There should never be reprisals or judgments held against anyone for suggesting a fantasy game. Remember, fantasy is just another form of expression. In fact, talking about your fantasies can actually make a couple grow closer, as long as there is a tacit agreement to stay open and not exert blame.So dont hesitate, let yourself go!Eve Marx, author of several books, writes frequently about sex for ThirdAge.com.
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