The Secrets You Reveal In Bed

Even if you dont talk in your sleep, youre still saying something in bed because your favorite sleeping position reveals secrets about how you see yourself and the world around you. Observational studies on thousands of subjects, indicates that our personal sleep positions translate into a silent body language that offers real clues into our personality, confirms Samuel Dunkell, M.D. director of New Yorks Insomnia Medical Services and author of Sleep Positions: Night Language of the Body.
Find your most frequent sleep position and uncover your personality strength.

ON YOUR STOMACH


Surveys show most high-level managers sleep on their stomach and with good reason. Stomach-sleepers tend to be grounded, organized, perfectionists who like to stay in control of their activities, says Dr. Dunkell. Thats why, whether youre sprawled on the bed or hugging a pillow to your chest, you sleep best when youre in full, face-to-face contact with the bed your activity of the moment. With a strong will and solid character, once you set your mind to something, its as good as done.

ON YOUR SIDE

If youre most comfortable sleeping on your side, youre not alone; its Americans most popular position. This is a middle-of-the road, see-every-side, adaptable position favored by people who are naturally flexible and able to compromise, says Dunkell. No wonder youre the one your friends look to for balanced advice. Open-minded and willing to listen, you gather all the information before making a decision and this see-the-big-picture attitude means you adapt to trying situations with ease.

YOU SWITCH POSITIONS ALL NIGHT

Sleep researchers say we all switch positions at least twice during the night but if youre on the move constantly, youve likely got energy to burn. Youre restless and thats why you jump into projects with whole hearted enthusiasm; although you sometimes burn out before the job is done, thats okay. Youve given it your all. Eager to try new things, whether its exotic food, a new friendship, even a late in life change in career your boundless energy keeps you moving forward. IN THE FETAL POSITIONPeople who favor the classic fetal position with knees pulled up to the chest and chin tucked down tend to be introspective, compassionate and idealistic romantics, says Dr. Dunkell. Whether youre rescuing a stray puppy, or giving a friend a hug when shes down, your idealism makes the world a better place for you, and everyone in your orbit.ON YOUR BACKA survey found that most Hollywood celebrities sleep on their backs and its not surprising. This position is typical of those who rate highest for self-esteem; the typical back sleeper is outgoing, optimistic and shines in the limelight, says Dr. Dunkell. Though you may not be famous, youre secure enough to chase your dreams with gusto. Even in your sleep, you face outward toward the world.Robin Westens most recent book is Relationship Repair (Sterling)See what others have to say about this story or leave a comment of your own.
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