Why Does Someone Else’s Cooking Always Taste So Good?

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Isn’t it true? You can be a great cook and turn out fabulous meals but the food prepared by someone else always seems to taste so good. Why is that? Last week, I went to a bar-b-que on the 4th of July given by a good friend to celebrate this great country as well as her husband’s birthday. She is originally from Tennessee and this girl knows how to cook up some mean pork bar-b-que complete with Cole slaw, baked beans, potato salad and all the trimmings!

One of my secrets to prevent overeating at a feast such as this is to eat breakfast and a light lunch so that I’m not ravenous when I walk in the door and lose all sense of self control. After all, as one of the folks in a recent corporate class told me, “biggie size = biggie butt and biggie thighs.” That saying will make you think twice before scooping the ice cream for your second root beer float.

I was in the kitchen talking to some other guests about how inviting the table and food items were and how we eat with our eyes. You may not be hungry at all until you see the warm bread buns or smell the sauce on the bar-b-que and then all of a sudden, you’re starving.

Then once you taste the food prepared by someone else, it’s hard to stop at just one serving or small portion. The variety of tastes and the availability of items you may rarely fix call your name over and over, “come back to the buffet for more.”

In a country where food accompanies most everything we celebrate, we all need our own plan of action to take back control of the fork so that we enjoy all the wonderful food without the end result being a biggie butt.

Dr. Susan

FrankBinetti's picture
Dr.Susan, I got hungry just reading your blog. Both my wife and I are pretty good cooks and my two hundred plus pounds proves it. I think what makes other people's cooking taste so good to us is the fact that it is different and even if it is slightly different it awakens a different response from our taste buds and brains. Not having to shop, cook and serve it up may also make it more inviting. I agree with you that we need a plan of action to prevent overeating. For me it is awareness of my size, weight and health that is helping me to not overdo it with the food. The last few years I've really let myself go by eating to cheer myself up and occupy my time, that behavior is changing through awareness. I slip once in a while but I know when I'm messing up. I also don't try to get my money's worth if I'm eating out which is something a lot of folks do. My worst example of this was on a cruise we took three years ago, The food was incredible as often described by others who have been on a cruise. I won't go into details regarding the menu but suffice to say I did my best of eat the cost of the cruise in food. Bad idea, stupid idea, unhealthy idea. I'm not looking to make excuses but I do believe age slowed my metabolism along with the weight I gained. Trying to lose now is a lot harder than when I was younger and couldn't gain but there is no one force feeding me, no one to blame except the guy in the mirror.
smitchell's picture
Hello Frank, I so agree with you. Not having to shop and cook can be a real delight and it's always fun to see what someone else is cooking up. I admire that you realized you were eating due to emotions and that thru awareness you are changing this habit. Way to go!! You've taken another big step by not feeling that you have to eat everything when you go out. Buffets can be the worse. Heck, you paid for an 'all you can eat' so you better do just that...eat it all! Keep up the good work, Dr. Susan
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