Labeling Children

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An Associated Press article entitled 'Experts Debate Labeling Children Obese' raises a tough issue faced by professionals who deal with children. How and when do you tell a child that they are overweight? This painful issue raises a larger question of whether adults should consider societal standards at all when talking to a person about their health.

There is an obesity crisis for American youth. 17% of children fall into the category of 'overweight', defined clinically as 'greater than at least 95% of youngsters the same age and gender.' An additional 34% are in the 85th to 94th percentile and deemed to be 'at risk for overweight.'

You mathematical types might recognize the irrationality of these statistics - how can 51% of children fall into a category reserved for the most overweight 15% of their peers? The answer lies in the denominator. Young people today are being compared to statistics established in the 1960's and 70's when children were a lot less obese. By fixing the standards to a time when children were more active, the scope of our cultural problem is revealed. It is only with a slight eyeroll that I write 'this problem is increasing in size.'

If these children were adults, the same categories have different terms. 'At risk of overweight' and 'overweight' are called 'overweight' and 'obese' when physicians talk to adults. We have been reluctant to use these harsher words with young people. However, the American Medical Association (AMA) wants this to change. They say children need to be presented with the facts, just like adults. Other professionals disagree, feeling these labels are more damaging than useful.

I disagree with the AMA. I think they should drop these silly and outdated labels for all ages, children and adults. It is not the label that leads to a healthier person. Change is driven by the will of the individual. It is further encouraged by the ongoing modeling and support of those who care about them. At best, all a label does is bring about a couple of days of frightened exercise and dieting. This is not how people become more healthy.

In the privacy of a doctor's office, individuals must be told when their unique body weight is unhealthy for their unique body size - no label or percentile required. For children, parents must be given strict guidelines for the food their child eats and clear expectations for reduced screen time and increased activity. The focus must shift from meaningless societal labels to meaningful guidelines that are known to support health. Nobody gets thinner by calling them fat. All real and sustainable change begins from within.

FrankBinetti's picture
This is a tough one Doug, I agree that stating the obvious in verbalizing the fact that a child is overweight doesn't really do anything to change that fact. My twelve year old daughter is a bit heavy and she knows it without us saying the words. I still think there needs to be less objection to the names associated with the problem of obesity or the labeling and more agressive action to help and support those who are obese to get to a more healthy weight. There is also a gray area concerning weight and health in my mind. I said my daughter was a bit overweight, she is however very athletic, active and according to her doctor healthy. So is there a gray area between true childhood obesity and bigger kids or kids whose bodies have not matured yet? I had just the opposite problem as a child and teen, I was the skinny kid who couldn't seem to gain weight no matter how hard I tried. I didn't need any reminders or labeling to make me aware of my body compared to most of the other guys. Now as I'm writing this I look down to my pot belly and think how cruel life is, there I was one hundred and three pounds as a teen and now two hundred and ten as a fifty three year old adult. I agree that privacy and respect must be considered when making any determination of where a child falls in the weight range and that parents must be involved in a positive way giving support and encouragement. Doctors can't be held responsible for the outcome of these notifications either, I think back to how many of my friends and family were told to to stop smoking by their doctors to no avail. Support, will power, lifestyle changes and desire are part of this growing problem. Our goal should not be to embarass or label but to make aware and help however we can. Blogs like this, parent awareness and discussions in general and in private might help to reduce some of the stigma associated with the very word "obesity". We can't keep it hidden and unspoken and expect positive results for our children or ourselves.
Doug Manning's picture
Frank, You are certainly right when you say this is a tough issue. It sounds like your daughter is a great example of why we should not apply standards from the 1970's (or any other standards) to any one person. Each of us should be judged according to our own unique body characteristics and requirements for health. Our cultural obsession with 'how we look' reminds me of a radio play I once heard. I do not know the title or the year but I will never forget the essence of the story. A man hiking in the mountains gets caught in an avalanche and ends up in a hidden valley previously undiscovered by the civilized world. The valley contained a city of people who do not have the ability to see. Their society was completely different than ours - it was not based on 'how things look'. Things like weight and beauty were unimportant. Things that had value enriched the other senses - touch, smell, taste, sound. The radio play obviously revolved around the sighted man's astonishment with, and growing appreciation of, various aspects of this culture. I was moved by the clear message that 'how it looks' is only a small part of 'how it is'. Our society gives far too much attention to the visual aspects of things. This is a good thing to remember when we catch ourselves valuing appearance above all other considerations. It's not really about how it looks. It's about health, freedom and personal fulfillment.
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